Choose Your Words Wisely – Update

Kindness won last week following a less than stellar start.

A three-mile run and a family talk helped us to forget the mean comments of the young woman who decided it was appropriate to be unkind.  It was a teachable moment we used to talk through the power of our words and the importance of each one we say aloud.

Clarity also came with an outpouring of love from Kelsey’s friends and the positive outlook Kelsey chooses to display each and every day.

Kelsey was both excited and happy to return to school and see her friends following.  All-day, we waited and hoped that she would come home without incident.  Her brother gave Kelsey a pep talk and continues to wear his BRAVE headband every day to support his sister in his own silent and sweet way.

That night, instead of sadness, Kelsey came home to tell us that kindness won the day.

The same child who sent parental instincts into less than desirable places last week realized that Kelsey was her friend after all.  Maybe it was her cute brother’s headband, or maybe it was the friends who surrounded her and wore their headbands daily, too.  (Thank you, by the way).

Whatever the reason, the same child asked Kelsey for a headband.

That night at practice, that same child wore her headband.  The next day after school, Kelsey revealed that the child who upset her so much on Monday was now a friend of hers.

“That’s how kindness wins,” Kelsey said.

It will not always be so easy, but it is great day when kindness wins.

To kindness…

BRAVE

Brave.  Defined in so many ways and displayed by so many of us, young and old each day.

Kelsey recently read the book, Born Just Right .  She could not put it down.  Jordan’s story and her family’s journey is vastly different from ours, yet similar in so many ways.  Kelsey felt inspired to do something for herself and her disease after reading Jordan’s story because Jordan is making her dreams come true.  

Kelsey wanted to find an outlet and let her creativity shine, too.  For weeks, Kelsey wrote and drew ideas in her journal.  Kelsey was ultimately motivated by her new love of hand bands.  Her brother is also wearing headbands these days, especially those he sees on @bryceharper3

BRAVE headbands were designed and created by Kelsey.   Kelsey will proudly wear hers to her first day of third grade today.

Kelsey’s brother will also wear his BRAVE band today to signify his unity and provide support and strength for his sister.  He does not realize how brave he is each and every day, too.

Here is to a wonderful school year to learners of all ages.  

Be BRAVE, follow your dreams, and let Kelsey know if you would like a headband.  She would love to see you wearing one.

Life is Good Today

Our recent crash has offered perspective and a renewed appreciation for all of the love and goodness surrounding us.  Kelsey’s medicine has finally been working well and when Kelsey is good and Kelsey’s medicine is working, life is good.
Life is good today.
We recently traveled to the National Institute of Health Sciences for an array of tests and checks.  Fourteen appointments in two days were trying, but Kelsey is truly amazing.  She lifts our spirits and keeps us smiling, wherever we are.
Today, we are thinking about a young man named Cole who remains at the NIH following his bone marrow transplant.  He and his family await results and a hopeful return to normalcy following this transplant.  Summer has not been filled with sun and fun for this family.
Thinking and praying for Cole and his family.
Holding tight to the sunshine and fun in our lives today.

Boom. Crash.

Boom. Crash. 

“Boom, crash, the sound of my heart, the beat goes on …”

A popular song repeats in our minds after a boom, crash left our hearts vividly pounding.  The sight of a white vehicle coming at us on a two lane road with some expletives and fear pulsating through our bones is what started our vacation.  Due to precision and swift reaction, it only left us with a side-swiped mirror and rattled emotions.

Swift and precise aversion led our vehicle far enough to avoid a head-on collision.  Our family and dog were present and shaken.  Kelsey cried herself to sleep once the police officers left the scene.

A hit and run vehicle left us with questions swarming and answers unknown.

We are blessed and grateful to report everyone is safe, just scared.

Public Service Announcement for this holiday week: please get off of your phones and hire a driver if you need one.

A hit and run is no way to start a vacation.  On the other hand, we’ll appreciate these days together even more as a result of arriving to our destination with only a shattered mirror and mind.

Broken glass may cut, maybe even scar, but it can be repaired.

Stay safe and drive safely.

The Kindess of a Cub

By now, you have likely heard the story: Chicago Cub, Albert Almora, Jr. hits a foul ball and a child is hit.  The ball was moving around 90 miles per hour and a terrible accident occurred.

The hit was accidental.  The reaction is what made headlines.

Fortunate to have Albert Almora, Jr.  and wife Krystal Almora support Kelsey’s Kaleidoscope, Inc, @krystalalmora @kelseys_kaleidoscope we know of Albert’s kindness and commitment firsthand.  His dedication in the off season and genuine compassion are best captured when he is with his family and through the support he provides to charitable causes.

In case you have not yet viewed the news-worthy event:

Composure.  Compassion.  Kindness. The key attributes we should aim for when interacting with one another is captured in the essence of this story.

We are amazed by the empathy and emotion Albert Almora, Jr. displayed on the field last week and the way he exemplifies the traits of courage, gratitude, and respect in his daily life.

To great men who make mistakes, show emotion, and display courage even on live television, we applaud you.

Thank you, @almorajr for reminding us that kindness and compassion mean so much.

The Rear View

As the school year comes to a close, our family has had time to reflect on the year we worked through and locate the bright side of it all.

Our family endured two medication changes, a biopsy, a concussion, 64 doctor views on the biopsy, months of steroids, marks like a cheetah for months, a mysterious eye funk, new scars inside and out, a mangled foot, an ambulance ride in a different state, and too many “I’m not sure” or “I do not knows” responses.

We close the year by putting those in the rear view.  We choose to move forward and not look back.  Though the moments and challenges brought us down at times, the bright side keeps us moving forward.

Our successes included Superintendent’s List, a communion, a character award, new friendships, a new instrument, a new sport, a new club, a gala, a golf outing, and the publication of a book.  We choose to celebrate the moments that made us proud and joyful.  We choose to recall the challenges to remind us to grow and endure.

The Rear View is a perfect lens to see shortcomings, learn from failures, and reflect on success.

The rain comes and goes, but the rainbows make it all worth it.

Reflect.  Reset.  Leave it in the Rear View.

Kelsey Hates the Needle

Author Mary Wagner & Illustrator Krystal Almora @krystalalmora release their first book, a picture book designed to help children ease their fears about vaccines, medications, and injections of any kind.  Please consider purchasing a book.  All proceeds benefit Kelsey’s Kaleidoscope, Inc.

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